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Disappointment with God

Disappointment with God

by Philip Yancey

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315 ratings, 4.13 average rating, 40 reviews
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published
September 1st 1997 (first published 1988) by Zondervan

binding
Paperback, 304 pages

isbn
0310517818 (isbn13: 9780310517818)

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Philip Yancey has a gift for articulating the knotty issues of faith. In Disappointment with God, he poses three questions that Christians wonder but Philip Yancey has a gift for articulating the knotty issues of faith. In Disappointment with God, he poses three questions that Christians wonder but seldom ask aloud: Is God unfair? Is he silent? Is he hidden? This insightful and deeply personal book points to the odd disparity between our concept of God and the realities of life. Why, if God is so hungry for relationship with us, does he seem so distant? Why, if he cares for us, do bad things happen? What can we expect from him after all? Yancey answers these questions with clarity, richness, and biblical assurance. He takes us beyond the things that make for disillusionment to a deeper faith, a certitude of God's love, and a thirst to reach not just for what God gives, but for who he is.


quotes from this book

"We tend to think, 'Life should be fair because God is fair.' But God is not life. And if I confuse God with the physical reality of life- by expecting constant good health for example- then I set myself up for crashing disappointment."

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"To some, the image of a pale body glimmering on a dark night whispers of defeat. What good is a God who does not control his Son's suffering? But another sound can be heard: the shout of a God crying out to human beings, "I LOVE YOU." Love was compressed for all history in that lonely figure on the cross, who said that he could call down angels at any moment on a rescue mission, but chose not to - because of us. At Calvary, God accepted his own unbreakable terms of justice. Any discussion of how pain and suffering fit into God's scheme ultimately leads back to the cross. "
Philip Yancey



"Grace, like water, flows to the lowest part."
Philip Yancey



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"We admit that we will never reach our ideal in this life, a distinctive the church claims that most other human institutions try to deny."
Philip Yancey (Soul Survivor: How My Faith Survived the Church)


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Lizzy B
02/24/09
Lizzy B rated it: 5 of 5 stars

bookshelves: spirituality
Read in February, 2009
Well, what is there to say other than while dealing with deeply theological issues, Yancey's pertinent style refuses to allow this to be a purely intellectual matter. He states the problem, runs through an understanding of it, only to bring against it the same criticisms we all face when stuck in the middle of a painful situation. He deals with emotions on an emotional realistic level rather than trying to explain them away and always answer why.

Even i as a person who always wants t...more
Well, what is there to say other than while dealing with deeply theological issues, Yancey's pertinent style refuses to allow this to be a purely intellectual matter. He states the problem, runs through an understanding of it, only to bring against it the same criticisms we all face when stuck in the middle of a painful situation. He deals with emotions on an emotional realistic level rather than trying to explain them away and always answer why.

Even i as a person who always wants to know "why" and have a firm solid understanding find that the mystery, and the way he deals with it here are enough of an answer to the why, for he shows the logic behind it.

Disappointment with God isn't just another cliche bringing book of one liners, but deeply biblical, emotional and logical. Is God hidden? Silent? or unfair? maybe he is actually - not the traditional answer - but here Yancey out as to why! Makes more sense then some people's oh no - its just you who's turned your back on him if he's hidden answers which always seem SOOO unsatisfactory!(less)
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James
07/26/09
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bookshelves: currently-reading
Read in July, 2009
After class yesterday I walked over to Barnes and Nobles. I was in a nostalgic mood I suppose and seeing a familiar author was welcome. I read through the first hundred pages or so yesterday and was struck by how much I found the book speaks to me. It asks many of the same questions I have asked. It also speaks about our expectations vs who God actually is in the Bible. Yancey uses examples found in the Bible where many of our desires of God (a more clear presence, closeness, physical prese...more After class yesterday I walked over to Barnes and Nobles. I was in a nostalgic mood I suppose and seeing a familiar author was welcome. I read through the first hundred pages or so yesterday and was struck by how much I found the book speaks to me. It asks many of the same questions I have asked. It also speaks about our expectations vs who God actually is in the Bible. Yancey uses examples found in the Bible where many of our desires of God (a more clear presence, closeness, physical presence manifested in a cloud or column of fire) didn't do it for the people of Israel and in fact often times caused hardship. (less)
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Claire Grasse
06/25/09
Claire Grasse rated it: 4 of 5 stars

I liked that this book dealt very honestly with the issue of believers facing disappointment with God. I like that Philip Yancey doesn't give the "right" answers, and in fact goes out of his way to debunk a lot of the predigested bumper-sticker rhetoric that so many Christians are content to swallow and regurgitate. I do have to say though, that like most Christian nonfic books I've read, the author says what he has to say in the first several chapters, and then spends the next couple ...more I liked that this book dealt very honestly with the issue of believers facing disappointment with God. I like that Philip Yancey doesn't give the "right" answers, and in fact goes out of his way to debunk a lot of the predigested bumper-sticker rhetoric that so many Christians are content to swallow and regurgitate. I do have to say though, that like most Christian nonfic books I've read, the author says what he has to say in the first several chapters, and then spends the next couple of hundred pages restating it in various ways. I realize this is pretty nonspecific. It's late. I'm tired. Overall good book!(less)
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Stevie
03/18/08
Stevie rated it: 4 of 5 stars

bookshelves: books-owned, read_again
Read in January, 2006
Among the few books I have read more than once because of its immense value in loving and trusting God.

Poignant Quotes:

"The Wager resolved decisively that the faith of a single human being counts for very much indeed. Job affirms that our response to testing matter."

"...the remarkable truth that our choices matter, not just to us and our own destiny but, amazingly, to God himself and the universe he rules."

"Faith means bel...more
Among the few books I have read more than once because of its immense value in loving and trusting God.

Poignant Quotes:

"The Wager resolved decisively that the faith of a single human being counts for very much indeed. Job affirms that our response to testing matter."

"...the remarkable truth that our choices matter, not just to us and our own destiny but, amazingly, to God himself and the universe he rules."

"Faith means believing in advance what will only make sense in reverse."

"We have little comprehension of what our faith means to God."

"God did not exempt Himself from the same requirements of faith He makes of us."

"Everything difficult indicates something more than our theory of life yet embraces." - George MacDonald

"From below, we tend to think of miracle as an invasion, a breaking into the natural world with spectacular force, and we long for such signs. But from above, from God's point of view, the real miracle is one of transposition: that human bodies can become vessels filled with Spirit, that ordinary human acts of charity and goodness can become nothing less than the incarnations of God on earth."

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Lynai
12/18/08
Lynai rated it: 4 of 5 stars


My very first Philip Yancey book to read. I bought this book as a Christmas gift for myself (in lieu of a new bag hehe) and more importantly, to deal with what's been bothering me for the past year. Is God silent? Is he hidden? Is he unfair? Though this book wasn't really able to answer all my questions (about God, about life) but it has somehow quieted my troubled, restless spirit (which I so very worked hard to hide from others) and made me hope again. Now I can face the new year more co...more

My very first Philip Yancey book to read. I bought this book as a Christmas gift for myself (in lieu of a new bag hehe) and more importantly, to deal with what's been bothering me for the past year. Is God silent? Is he hidden? Is he unfair? Though this book wasn't really able to answer all my questions (about God, about life) but it has somehow quieted my troubled, restless spirit (which I so very worked hard to hide from others) and made me hope again. Now I can face the new year more courageously and confidently, despite all disappointments, struggles and fears. I'm looking forward to more of Yancey's books.(less)
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Dri Wang
06/12/09
Dri Wang rated it: 5 of 5 stars

bookshelves: spiritual
Read in April, 1998
Still one of the best Christian books I've read. It deals with the real difficulties of life without over-simplification and trite black and white answers. Yancey wrote this before he penned "Jesus I Never Knew," and much of his ideas in this book is repeated in the latter books. The difference between this book and majority of popular Christian books: the author is actually a great thinker and writer.
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Patty
09/10/08
Patty rated it: 4 of 5 stars

Read in December, 2008
Yancey is one of my favorite Christian authors. He seems to have an inquisitive mind and seems willing to pay attention to other authors who do not have the same outlook as he does. I like the fact that he quotes from Luther, Buechner, Lewis and others.

I am not dealing right now with the "dark night of the soul". My relationship with G-d will always need strengthening, but my life is good at the moment. I think that that fact means this book had less meaning than it mig...more
Yancey is one of my favorite Christian authors. He seems to have an inquisitive mind and seems willing to pay attention to other authors who do not have the same outlook as he does. I like the fact that he quotes from Luther, Buechner, Lewis and others.

I am not dealing right now with the "dark night of the soul". My relationship with G-d will always need strengthening, but my life is good at the moment. I think that that fact means this book had less meaning than it might another time. I am not disappointed with G-d, thank G-d.

However, I have been disappointed before and will probably struggle with these issues a few more times in my life. I know, that Yancey will be a help when that time comes. He has helped me look at disappointment and the story of Job in a whole new light. I thank him for that.(less)
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Sherry
03/17/09
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Read in March, 2009
I have re read this again at different times in my life and always find different parts of it speak to me. It's about having faith that we may not know all that is happening in a spiritual realm above and beyond us and even if we did, we may not be able to comprehend it.
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Laurie
04/17/08
Laurie rated it: 4 of 5 stars

Read in June, 2009
I really enjoyed this book. It deals with the topic of how sometimes (or most times) we feel like God isn't near us. We go through tough times and wonder where God is in all of that, but really, another way to view it is where are we in all of this? What is our response to God when we endure heartache or disease?

Many people want to see God, to have miracles happen all the time, to have every prayer answered. Philip Yancey gives some good arguments as to why God doesn't do this. It's...more
I really enjoyed this book. It deals with the topic of how sometimes (or most times) we feel like God isn't near us. We go through tough times and wonder where God is in all of that, but really, another way to view it is where are we in all of this? What is our response to God when we endure heartache or disease?

Many people want to see God, to have miracles happen all the time, to have every prayer answered. Philip Yancey gives some good arguments as to why God doesn't do this. It's not because he doesn't care or he's not powerful. It's because back in the day, when he did those things with the Israelites, they turned away from Him. It's like a damned if you do, damned if you don't scenario. A really interesting way of thinking about things, though.(less)

Shane Blackshear
03/19/09
Shane Blackshear rated it: 4 of 5 stars

Read in January, 2004
Yancey is one of the greatest Christian thinkers of our day.
This book is honest, not Sunday school honest, real life honest. Yancey systematically explores the questions that haunt most human beings.
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Kristen
09/17/07
Kristen rated it: 5 of 5 stars

Read in July, 2008
There are many books out there that talk about God answering prayer and delivering people from suffering. However, if you are not having prayers answered the way you want and God doesn't pull you out of suffering, it is natural to ask, "But what about when God doesn't deliver!?" This book talks about that in a really honest way that I appreciated. It doesn't make you feel guilty for questioning God and his methods. It also pointed to the day when we will be ultimately delivered fro...more There are many books out there that talk about God answering prayer and delivering people from suffering. However, if you are not having prayers answered the way you want and God doesn't pull you out of suffering, it is natural to ask, "But what about when God doesn't deliver!?" This book talks about that in a really honest way that I appreciated. It doesn't make you feel guilty for questioning God and his methods. It also pointed to the day when we will be ultimately delivered from injustice and when all things will be made right. This is the hope that has to keep us going when our immediate, earthly situation continues to be unjust.(less)
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Sue
01/25/08
Sue rated it: 4 of 5 stars (review of isbn 0551029722)

bookshelves: christian
Read in April, 2009
When I first read this in 1999, I thought it was an excellent and inspiring book. It looks at people who have felt let down by God. Focussing on the book of Job, the three main questions asked are: Is God hidden? Is he silent? Is he fair?

There are no clichés or pat answers, but several honest attempts to find some meaning and reason in the apparently random quirks of life.

On second reading, ten years later, I did not find it so inspiring... possibly because I reme...more
When I first read this in 1999, I thought it was an excellent and inspiring book. It looks at people who have felt let down by God. Focussing on the book of Job, the three main questions asked are: Is God hidden? Is he silent? Is he fair?

There are no clichés or pat answers, but several honest attempts to find some meaning and reason in the apparently random quirks of life.

On second reading, ten years later, I did not find it so inspiring... possibly because I remembered much of the contents so there was nothing new. Still a good read, though. Recommended to anyone who has found God or the Christian life disappointing.
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Jonathan
05/27/07
Jonathan rated it: 3 of 5 stars

Read in February, 2005
What I admire most about Philip Yancey is that he asks the questions (and publicly) that so many Christians would like to hush up. He's okay with life being untidy. The three queries he poses: Is God unfair? Is he silent? Is he hidden? Yancey's willing to follow these questions all the way down and share what he's found. His prose is clear if not poetic, and that's okay. He just tends to strip things down to basics and build them back up again with a biblical backdrop. He pulls no punches and do...more What I admire most about Philip Yancey is that he asks the questions (and publicly) that so many Christians would like to hush up. He's okay with life being untidy. The three queries he poses: Is God unfair? Is he silent? Is he hidden? Yancey's willing to follow these questions all the way down and share what he's found. His prose is clear if not poetic, and that's okay. He just tends to strip things down to basics and build them back up again with a biblical backdrop. He pulls no punches and doesn't wax emotional. This book is no different from his others in that it's rich with knowledge and humility.(less)
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Margo
10/15/07
Margo rated it: 4 of 5 stars

Read in October, 2007
recommends it for: Everyone
Yancey does a nice job of exploring three questions that no one asks aloud: Is God unfair? Is God silent? Is God hidden? He imparts personal experiences with solid Bible knowledge to give a wonderful overview of the human race's disappointment throughout the Bible in Part I. In Part II, Yancey continues to use Scripture references to further help us uncover the tough answers to the most important questions. It gives a new perspective on life, that is the perspective of God. It also encourag...more Yancey does a nice job of exploring three questions that no one asks aloud: Is God unfair? Is God silent? Is God hidden? He imparts personal experiences with solid Bible knowledge to give a wonderful overview of the human race's disappointment throughout the Bible in Part I. In Part II, Yancey continues to use Scripture references to further help us uncover the tough answers to the most important questions. It gives a new perspective on life, that is the perspective of God. It also encourages a renewed focus on the eternal life and the greater purpose that God has in store for us. (less)
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Carol
01/29/09
Carol rated it: 4 of 5 stars

Read in January, 2001
This helped me get through a miscarriage, among other things.
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Steve Reeves
06/07/07
Steve Reeves rated it: 3 of 5 stars

bookshelves: spiritual
Read in May, 2007
recommends it for: Anyone looking to explore the paradoxes of faith in Christ
Overall, I learned that God is God, and I am not. My ways are not His ways, and though that's not always a sufficient explaination for why bad things happen to us in life, it's the best we've got, so I'll rest in that. Yancey breaks down the book of Job into OUR struggle, and not just the desperate struggle of a man who might/might not have lived three thousand plus years ago. He is able to truly make that book of the Old Testament come alive, and I will always recommend people read his stuff...more Overall, I learned that God is God, and I am not. My ways are not His ways, and though that's not always a sufficient explaination for why bad things happen to us in life, it's the best we've got, so I'll rest in that. Yancey breaks down the book of Job into OUR struggle, and not just the desperate struggle of a man who might/might not have lived three thousand plus years ago. He is able to truly make that book of the Old Testament come alive, and I will always recommend people read his stuff if they are looking for a deeper exploration of faith in God.(less)
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Aneil Mishra
05/12/09
Aneil Mishra rated it: 5 of 5 stars

After the Bible, one of the most important books I've ever read.
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Corrie McMillin
bookshelves: faith, top-faith
Read in November, 2003
I read this book for its title. It described just how I was feeling my freshman year of college. This is one I should revisit very soon and I could write a more thorough review. I just wanted to include it now because it's one of my very few books. The thing about Yancey is that is not afraid to talk about the feelings and emotions that are tied up with our Christianity. BUT he actually has Scripture texts and verses that support his questions and his somewhat incomplete but satisfying conclusio...more I read this book for its title. It described just how I was feeling my freshman year of college. This is one I should revisit very soon and I could write a more thorough review. I just wanted to include it now because it's one of my very few books. The thing about Yancey is that is not afraid to talk about the feelings and emotions that are tied up with our Christianity. BUT he actually has Scripture texts and verses that support his questions and his somewhat incomplete but satisfying conclusions. My first Yancey book.(less)
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Kathryne
08/15/08
Kathryne rated it: 5 of 5 stars

Definitely an existentialist read on Christianity. Very real to life perceptions of Jesus, His life, His plan. This book is for those of us who have tried to buy into the traditional well-meaning but off-center Chritian dogma that has cycled back to a 'pharaseical' philosphy of 'fit this shape' or you do not belong, which certainly does not represent Christ.

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